He didn’t answer. Again.

And even though I told myself not to spiral, I did.
Is he okay? Should I text again? Does it sound familiar?

I had to remind myself of everything I have been coaching on over the years - about independence, trust, and raising capable young men. But in that moment, all I felt was the ache of letting go.

For years, I managed it all - school drop-offs, meal planning, sports schedules, late-night talks, and last-minute project runs. Like you, I was the CEO of my family, the one in charge, ensuring everything ran smoothly. But now? Now, our role is shifting. And let’s be honest—it’s hard. It’s emotional. And it feels like no one prepared us for this part of the journey.